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As online chat becomes like second nature to you and your skills are finely tuned, you will quickly become an identity within your new online chat network and will gain many new friends, and your diary will be full of new people to date.

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Secondly,you will almost certainly be a little nervous(or a lot for some).This nervous energy will be a distraction that is not needed.Stay cool and calm and tell yourself it is not nerves,but excitement and expectations coming to the surface.Do not allow these nerves to ruin your first date.

Last but not least,being honest is paramount.Do not try to impress your date with tall tales.Be honest and sincere with your date and they will surely appreciate it and reciprocate.You may actually find that your date is impressed much more than some tale they can see through.
Just three little things that could make or break your first date,which after all,may end up leading to a lasting and rewarding relationship.

By: Matt F”

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Next to a dentist appointment there is nothing as stressful as going out on a first date. At least with the dentist you can get some Novocain to numb the pain. There is the constant need to impress the person on the other side of the table, the worry about whether or not you’re talking about yourself too much, and if your clothes look all right. Let’s face it; first dates aren’t never the most relaxing of events.

Still, you don’t need to worry or create any more stress than already exists, either. First dates are supposed to be fun. They are a chance for you to get to know someone new even if the there is no second date. Here is a list of Dating tips to start you out right.

• Make it affordable - A first date is just what it sounds like. It’s your first chance to get to know someone better. It doesn’t need to be all out and “show-offy”. Save the big spending for later in case things work out.
  
  
• Pick somewhere you can talk – There is no talking during the movies and you’ll need to yell in their ear the whole time at a crowded bar. Base your first date location on whether or not you can comfortably talk in it without interruption. Your focus on a first date should be getting to know that new someone and you can’t do that without talking.
  
  
• Play it loose and casual – Wear comfy clothes and you’ll be comfortable. While wearing a new outfit for a first date may impress that person, but that doesn’t mean you’ll be relaxed and comfortable. What if you decide to go for a walk after dinner and your new make the entire experience unbearable? Wear for comfortable, flattering, dependable clothes which won’t pinch, sag, break, ride up, and leave you fiddling all night.
  
  
• Choose an easy to find location – Pick a date location no further than thirty minutes away or one that will require you to Google map it. If things go well on your first date, then you can try out that hard-to-find location another time.
  
  
• Stay away from alcohol - There is nothing wrong with having a drink but the key is moderation. You’re going on a first date, not a night out drinking with your college roommates. Drinking heavily on a first date is a sure recipe for disaster.
  
  
• Plan some time to get to know one another – Even the best planned dates often skimp on the most important detail of a first date and that’s getting to know each other a little bit better. Don’t have a date involve so much activity that there is no time for any one on one interaction. If you choose to attend an activity together, make sure you’ve allowed for some down time afterwards chatting.
  
  
• Have fun and enjoy yourself - Don’t think you need to take your date out to do something you hate just to win some brownie points. Trust me, you won’t. Instead, together plan some activities you both enjoy.
  

By: J Simkhai

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First impressions are not only important, they’re lasting — whether they’re accurate or not. For shy people, making a strong first impression is tough. Often, shyness is mistaken for indifference or arrogance, terrible attributes for singles. So how best to beat bashfulness? Read on…

Confidence is hot. I’m not talking too-cool-for-school cockiness; I’m talking about letting that inner self shine and showing other singles what you’re all about. So no more avoiding gazes, no more shying away from new faces, no more worrying that you’ll say the wrong thing at the wrong time.

First impressions are too important. In fact, lifetime-lasting snap judgments are made just seconds after laying eyes on someone. Master a few simple tricks and you’ll have the power to conquer shyness and boldly go where you’ve never gone before.

If You Envision It, It Will Come

It’s impossible to go from shy to bold in just one day. It takes practice. Tap into your sanguine side by simply smiling at someone on the bus or in an elevator. Another fab technique for boosting confidence and nurturing that gift of gab is visualization. By playing out all realistic possible scenarios in your mind beforehand, you are in essence going through a dry run of the experience. Visualize yourself being confident and successful, and the real thing will be easy beans.

Let ‘Em Judge Your Book by Its Cover

The last thing you want to wear when you’re meeting new people are threads that need adjusting. Fidgeting makes you look nervous and unprepared. Don something that highlights your sexiest body parts but doesn’t need turning, unfolding or aligning. Being at ease in your salacious skin exudes the confident air you seek. Don’t forget to stand or sit up straight (a folded, hunched-over posture signals that you’re closed to people around you), unclasp those hands (instinct tells us that closed hands hide weapons), and keep both feet planted on the floor (crossed feet exude an unconfident, off-balance impression).

Eye for an I

Our animal instincts make eye contact extremely meaningful. In fact, our peepers are the most demonstrative part of our body–can you think of one emotion they can’t express? Eye contact may speak louder than words–but beware the message: staring too long implies aggression, while not long enough screams insecurity. Remember to avoid over-blinking; Is that a pookie in your eye, or are you just nervous to see me?

A Room with A View

Walking into a room full of strangers is one of hardest things for shy people to do. Thankfully there are three things you can do to give the impression of confidence. First, fight your instinct to hide under the welcome mat. Instead, pause just inside the room, smile subtly, and count to three in your head. As you’re standing there, suss out the space. Is there an empty bar stool or interruptible host? Make eye contact with the people your baby blues pass over. Finally, put one Adidas in front of the other and walk toward your chosen target. But don’t skirt the room’s edges: walk right straight through the middle with slow, convincing strides.

Meet Your Match

When greeting someone new, look into their eyes with a happy, open but not too needy expression. Say their name when you’re introduced. Touch is a powerful tool that breaks barriers and makes people feel immediately more intimate. So put out your paw and shake hands. Repeating their name as you do this not only helps you remember them later on, but it makes them feel top-drawer and at ease with you. Beware the flimsy finger grip, the death grip, or the politician’s handshake (using both your hands to sandwich theirs).

Talk the Talk

Two singles spending time in the same place already share one thing in common–location. So mention something about your shared environment. Or look for something about them that you can comment on (”nice boobs” or “too bad about that bird poo on your jacket” are not good conversational forays).

Many people scan for quirky tidbits when reading the news, drawing from a stored cache when there’s a lull in the conversation. And then there’s the foolproof method: asking people about themselves. It not only charms their pants off, it detracts attention from you, lessening any feelings of shyness. Listen to their reply and ask a question related to their answer, rather than spacing out as you try to think of another, unrelated question.

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Having an opinion is sexy, so don’t be afraid to gently disagree with them, and drop in some personal tidbits without bombarding them with me-me-mes. Once you engage in small talk a few times a day, it will start to feel more natural and instinctive, and shyness will fall to the wayside, opening the door to your brave new world.

By Kelly Jones

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